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Many families come together during fall and winter holidays. While a lot of fun, it also creates an opportunity to evaluate how a loved one’s health and needs are changing. Extended time together with multiple family members creates a perfect environment for discussing the changing needs of a senior family member, and to start research around a transition to an assisted living or memory care community.
Families Gather Together
It can be informative to observe an aging loved one during a multi-generational gathering. As we get older, it can be more difficult to engage in traditions and manage large groups. Seniors may not hear as well or have the strength and dexterity to participate as they once did. While much of this is expected as we age, it could be signs that additional daily support is needed. Family gatherings present an opportunity to discuss changing health and wellness needs and learn from varying interactions.
Changes To Watch
Families often come from far and wide for holiday time. If you haven’t seen your loved one in a while, you may be in the best position to weigh in on measurable physical and mental health changes. A few key safety and health things to consider:
- Increased fall risks
- Mobility challenges, including issues navigating stairs, getting in and out of bed or cars
- Lack of food in the house (especially if driving is a challenge)
- Difficulty with daily activities (cooking, housekeeping, managing finances, etc.)
- Decline in personal hygiene and the ability to go to the bathroom
- Struggles with managing medications (too few or too many pills in a prescription bottle)
In addition to physical changes, notice a loved one’s social and emotional well being. Winter can be particularly isolating after the flurry of the holiday. Watch for signs of loneliness and depression and make sure they engage in structured social activities and have easy access to meaningful personal connections.
Many Hands To Help
If a loved one is ready for assisted living, the winter holidays can be a great time to transition to a residential community. With folks visiting from out of town, extra hands are available to do tactical things like move furniture and hang pictures. They can also be onsite to participate in dinners and activities. When loved ones are able to experience this transition together, they can talk through challenges, including fears and reservations, and help smooth the transition by getting to know people and the community together.
Make Spirits Bright
Many assisted living centers are bursting with events during December and January. From expected holiday happenings to extra baking classes, crafts, caroling, and performances – there’s a lot to celebrate! At Calyx, our professional kitchen offers baking activities multiple times a week and we welcome children’s choirs, professional piano concerts, and host regular movie nights all as part of soaking in the holiday season. These events make it easy for residents to make connections that carry into the new year.
Exploring assisted living and memory care facilities is a big step. The Calyx Team understands that and can help families evaluate the different types of senior care available and understand what may be best fit for their family. Contact our team or tour one of the communities to see if we’re a good fit. We look forward to welcoming you and supporting your loved one’s transition. herished and loved.